Esa supuesta amiga Patricia. Gente negativa y gente positiva – That “friend” of mine Patricia. Negative and positive people

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Otra version del yin yang..

Las personas, en la vida real (y en Second Life tambien) pueden dividirse en dos grupos: negativos y positivos. Aquellas personas positivas son: los respetuosos de nuestra libertad, nuestras ideas y personalidad, los que no nos usan para sus objetivos.,  los que nos ayudan sin pedir nada a cambio, los desestructurados y sin fanatismos, los que no hacen del dinero su ambicion, los que tienen buen gusto, los que no hablan tanto por hablar, los que no simulan ser lo que no son, los que no se hacen cirugias en la cara, los que tienen humor, los que no tienen ideologia de derecha o simpatizan con los militares. Los negativos son todo lo contrario. De los negativos me alejo, en incluso llego a decirles en la cara que se alejen. A veces nos toca este tipo de personas en situaciones como el trabajo o vecinos y hay que aguantarlos de la mejor manera posible, casi siempre simulando (despues de todo es lo que todo el tiempo hacemos —recuerdo a Jose Ingenieros en aquel librito que lei hace años. Por eso hoy tuve que frenar a Patricia, que antes de quedarse sola en la vida no me daba mucha bola porque consideraba que yo no tenia tanto dinero ni le convenia mi amistad y ahora que esta sola me llama para que la ayude con sus problemas personales y economicos. Por respeto le aguante sus tontos discursos contra el Che o contra Chavez o aquella tonta pregunta: No parezco universitaria? o su desprecio por los negros. No quiero gente negativa cerca..

People in real life (and in Second Life, too) can be divided into two groups: negative and positive. The positive: the respectful of our freedom, our ideas and personality, those who do not use us to reach their objectives, those who help us without asking anything in return, the unstructured and without fanatisms, the ones who do not include money as one of their goals, those who have good taste, those who do not talk too much just for talking, those who pretend to be something they are not, those who do not have cosmetic surgeries in their faces, those with good humour, the ones who are not rightists or think military are cool . The negatives are the opposite. I always try to get away from the negatives, and sometimes I tell them in their faces to stay away from me. Sometimes we have to deal with these people in situations such as work or we have them as neighbors and we have to bear them the best possible way, often simulating (after all is what we do all the time— I remember that Jose Ingenieros in that book that I read so many years ago. So, today I had to stop to Patricia, who, before her husband left her, did not think I had enough money and barely talked to me, and now he thinks I can help her with her personal and economic problems. Out of respect, I tried to be calm when she held those stupid speeches against Chavez or “Che” or made that silly question: Am I look like college-educated? or her contempt for blacks. I do not want negative people around …

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